Here is a page from a book written by a MAN (author bio below). Just glancing over the list, I never had any problems breaking any of these rules. Any of them look familiar to our vixens above? Hey, I didn't make the rules.
Men's Top 10 Rules for Women
1- Learn how to communicate. Say what you mean, ask for what you want directly. Expecting a man to interpret indirect signals and read your mind is not communication.
2- Learn to be consistent. Irrational behavior just doesn't cut it. If you say you're going to do something, then follow through and do it. Be honest with yourself -- don't say one thing and do another. And for God's sake, don't change your mind a million times.
3- Stop using sex as bait. If you want to have sex, then have sex. Don't use sex as a tool to manipulate men. And another thing: Stop tempting men with low-cut dresses or bare midriffs and then blame them for trying to get you into bed. If you need attention that badly, go see a shrink.
4- Develop a conscience. Stop abusing your sexual power. Many women have no ethical dilemmas at all about using men for favors or financial gain by dangling the promise of sex in front of them. Not only is this deceitful and immoral, but it's a double standard nothing short of fraud.
5- Knock off the mixed messages. If you're interested in a guy, let him know it. Ditto with sex. Maybe playing hard to get is cool if you're 12 years old, but it's just annoying 20 years later. Refer to rule #1 -- men aren't able to read minds, so don't expect them to.
6- Stop expecting men to finance your life. This is the 2000's, for God's sake -- women are enjoying unparalleled career and earning opportunities, and it's unfair to treat men like ATM machines, especially when many women are earning as much or more than we are. It may be a great scam, but at its core, it's nothing but age-old prostitution -- trading sex for money.
7- If you expect equality, then act like it. Equal rights means equal rights across the board -- not just when it's in your best interests. If you expect equal pay, then expect to be drafted and pay your share of dating expenses, too.
8- Stop blaming men for all your problems. We aren't what's wrong -- you are.
9- Just be nice. Can't you just be nice? Nobody likes a nasty, self-serving bitch. And men today are very, very tired of self-serving bitches.
10- Read The Rules
Matthew Fitzgerald is the author of Sex-Ploytation. He has appeared on radio shows from coast-to-coast in the United States and in Canada, and has been featured on the Montel show and The Other Half. If you would like to buy this book, click on my HOME PAGE.
2 comments:
Your blog keeps getting better and better! Your older articles are not as good as newer ones you have a lot more creativity and originality now keep it up!
I'm a tomboy andI just searched online to see if there's any men out there who like tomboys. GLAD you exist-really! I get tired of wearing a wig and acting all girly (not like me) to get a man!
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